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                  Would you like to drastically reduce the impact of  the bad stuff playing in your head?
               Would you like to? You can do exactly that, but you have to know WHAT TO DO AND
               HOW TO DO IT!  Here are
three nationally recognized techniques to get rid of bad mind
               movies.
The basic setup for all three techniques is:  Sit comfortably in a quiet spot, turn
               away from all distractions.
 
                        You know you should seek professional help first, right?


                       First Technique     Second Technique     Third Technique

              
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And now back to the rest of us, some of whom have suffered pretty much.  Most of the time
emotional pain is created and magnified terribly by the image(s) playing in our brains. We can't
get rid of them.  How many times have you heard someone say, "I can
still hear (see) that awful
(whatever) happening.  It 's ghastly and I'll never be able to not think of it." They feel like the movie
is chained in their brain's memory banks.  The content is the physical moments they went through it,
or as they
witnessed it, or even as they got a message and found out
"it" had happened.    You see,
"It" can really do bad damage to us, even if we only witness "it" on TV or just see "it" in a movie.  
That's why we protect our children.  Brains aren't fully formed until about 18.  Tragedy can
seriously endanger a child's healthy development by exposing them to a flood of negative events.
WE can be seriously impaired, too, as adults. What to do?


A note about this:  One, the damages of a traumatic experience and recovery from it are 
VERY
personal and individualized.  Some people are "wired" to withstand  trauma that
would send someone else to a psych ward.
Others not so much.   Don't assume you "ought to"
be handling your trauma like you were  US Airways Pilot
"Sully" Sullenberger, landing your plane
on the Hudson.  Whatever your reaction is, that's what you have to deal with.  *You should always
consider seeking professional help first before utilizing these online techniques.


Click here to view at
                      Amazon.The three techniques here are techniques adapted from NLP(Neourolinguistic Programming),
namely one book by one specific pair of authors,
Steve and Connirae Andreas,  called
 HEART OF THE MIND.This amazing, life-changing book is still available at Amazon,
 but I would get it fast if you want it. the full title is:  
Heart of the Mind: Engaging Your
Inner Power to Change With Neuro-Linguistic Programming.
  


 
                                             
First Technique
: The first technique I call,  "Remaking Your Own Movie!"   See yourself
in your own movie theater.  The film that is playing is the movie that bothers you.  But this
time you are going to watch it from a particular seat and you can control the size of what you
see  by where you sit.  
                                                     
1.  Move back in the theater until you feel more relaxed because the image is small
enough.  Maybe you will have to move so far back that the screen is no bigger than
a postage stamp.  You can. It's your theater.
 If sitting in the audience, even in the back,
is still too close, go up in the projection booth.  If that is still too close, visualize yourself
standing outside the wall of the theater looking in at your self sitting there watching the film.  
The bottom line is getting your brain to accept the reduction of the emotional impactof the movie.
Y
ou may have to consciously move farther back in this theater in your mind for awhile until the
picture is small enough, especially at the beginning.
2.  Now start to run the movie.  Start it just before the bad stuff happens.  Sound with that?
Turn the volume right down to where it doesn't bother you.  the controls are right there at
your side.
 Try to run the movie in color.  Stop it right after the bad stuff.  

Now you have two choices. 

First choice:  You can continue to run the film over and over again, each time looking to
see it, but now in black and white, decreasing the picture and sound until what is playing
bothers you much less.  Come back in your mind and do that again.  The brain
, indeed,
will begin to reprogram the original "film" with the one you are
now showing, very tiny with
almost no sound.  That's because in some ways
the brain is a computer that you manage.  
It will do what you program it to do. 
The trick is knowing how to do it.  You are using images
to overide other, negatively loaded, images.  D
epending upon the severity of the trauma
and your built in, your "wired," response to that trauma,
it will take as many times as it takes to
render the "movie" impotent.  

Second choice:  Instead of running it over and over forwards and reducing
it,  you will do something differently.  As before, start the film just before the
awful stuff started and end it when it's over.  But now, instead of runnng it over
and over, you will run it once forward, then RUN IT BACKWARDS, in black and white
if you can and STOP IT AT THE BEGINNING.  Every time  the imagery pops into your
head keep running it backwards and stopping it at the beginning.  I was in a car
accident and this one worked for me. 

Remember, pain comes in waves that will begin tosubside.  Like the tide,  the waves
ome in and out, gradually receding.  
They begin to occur less frequently, less intensely,
and don't last as long.  Eventually, and especially if you use
these techneques, you may
begin notice this happening more quickly.  
 

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Second Technique: This technique is adapted from a book called Click here to view on Amazon.Urban Shaman
written  by Serge Kahili King, a psychologist who works, or did, in L.A. and Hawaii.  He offers an
incredible array of   techniques for improving your perspective on life.  This particular
technique is often used for physical events that have happened to you and have shaken you up,
but it can be used effectively for all emotional pain.  After you are comfortable, and if you can stand it, 
visualize the pertinent events leading up to and including the event. 
BUT  AFTER THAT
IMMEDIATELY run the events in your mind to turn out differently!  Now, nothing bad happens!
The car just misses you. You just miss the other car. The knife just misses your finger.  Even
If you were not present and it concerns someone you care about, my bet is you have imaged
the events leading up to and including the fateful action.  Over and over and over again until you
replace the automatic presentation with the new image.  Now imagine the events that lead up
to the eventand the eventMISSES! *  I know, it sounds like you are trying to convince
yourself it didn't happen.
  This point is extremely important, you are only scrambling
the image, not the logic that knows the truth
.
   You are not going to suddenly forget what
happened.  No, in effect, you are simply acknowledging that this haunting image is not doing
you any good.  Believe me, if you need to mourn, you will mourn.

*You may feel very bitter about what happened.  You can't call bac
k a loved one or a part of
yourself lost,
 or a cherished possession now gone.  What you are doing in this work, and it
is hard work, is rebalancing your emotions so that you can function.  You don't want the event
to win twice!                                                                                        
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Third Technique:  The setup for this, since it involves a deeper meditation is more
important.

Sit back (or lie down) and if sitting take everything off your lap and rest arms and
feet comfortably so as to not hamper your body's circulation.  Take a deep breath,
gently, hold for a moment and gently and slowly exhale.  Again. Take a deep breath,
gently, hold for a moment and slowly exhale.  Now close your eyes, squint tightly and
release, leaving your eyes closed.  Again, squint  tightly and release, keeping your eyes
closed.As you keep your eyes closed, tense tightly, then release, all the muscles in your
body. Notice your breathing.  Breathe slowly.  It isn't necessary to grab great gulps of air. 
Just slow down your breathing.  Notice that your breathing is beginning to become deeper
and more gentle.  Keep doing this until you are convinced you are relaxed.

Now...the third technique:
Let your mind wander into a beautiful stream...a waterfall cascading into a lovely pool,
in turn flowing down a gentle but powerful stream...Look at the lovely blue sky, the clouds
...See the wild flowers at the sides of the pool.  The air is soft and fresh, the smells are wonderful.
Detail this beautiful scene as fully as you can.  Now leave the cascading falls behind you, as
you move slowly but gently down the stream, just like the song...Allow yourself to be carried
along.  You need do nothing, just move without effort down the stream.  Know that as you move
down this stream, so you allow yourself to move past pain and into the stream of life flowing
beyond
...Do not translate this!  Keep it as a symbol, a metaphor.  Let yourself drift as long as
you are comfortable and fully engaged in this process. If you fall asleep, that's fine.  You can do
this at night to fall asleep.  If not...Take a moment to resurface  ...Let your mind come back to the
present
. Begin to move the fingers of your hands, your feet and legs, hands and arms.  Open
your eyes. Open!    [The more days you do this, the better you will feel.]      
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